I've been dreading this day for a while now. Afraid that I would feel too much. Afraid that I would feel too little. Afraid that whatever I was feeling wouldn't be enough. One year ago today, my husband and I experienced one of the hardest things a couple can face: we lost our baby. Just four short weeks before his scheduled delivery date, our little Enoch's heart stopped beating and our own hearts shattered. One year. It hardly seems possible.
I took work off today so I could handle whatever emotions I had coming at me. Surprisingly, the emotion I felt the very most today was PEACE. Perhaps it's not surprising, after all. Ever since Enoch's passing, I've been overwhelmed with peace in the knowledge that our little buddy was in safe hands. I think it helps that Enoch's Birth/Angel day is the same day as my older sister Denise's birth . . . just 49 years later. Denise also died young. She and my younger sister Tonya were both killed in a car accident nearly 21 years ago. Denise was only 29. Tonya was just 17. I felt the same sense of peace after their passing. I have no doubt that they were among those in heaven who were there to receive their nephew as his little spirit entered their place of rest.
That's not to say I never grieved the death of my loved ones. I sobbed over the loss of my Enoch, and was devastated over the loss of my sisters. But after a even a little while, peace enters my heart, and I'm so grateful for that!
Today my husband, kids and I went to the cemetery where Enoch, Denise, and Tonya all rest. We decorated the headstones of the birthday twins, sang "Happy Birthday," and released balloons with messages of love for our baby boy. If he has trouble reading it, I'm sure Denise and Tonya will be there to help him out. :)
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